What was that?

So the other day I was sitting in the living room, I know….shocking that I’m not in the kitchen like I usually am with Luke does something, and I was busy doing something on the computer when the lights turned on.  It was just in my periphial vision, and before I could look the lights went off again…at first I thought the power must have had a surge or something…then I realized the computer and TV were fine….and so I looked to my right.  What do I find?

I found something that thrilled me and yet also had be perplexed.  There was Luke standing up against the wall.  Both hands were flat against the wall, and then I saw him reach for the light switch and on the lights went again!  I couldn’t believe it.  I think if anyone was watching I would have done one of those “double-take” kind of looks. 

My four year old son was standing with his hands braced on the wall and there was no walker and no person anywhere around.  I just couldn’t believe it!  Then I walked over to him and told him how proud I was of him and then I noticed how close the gate in the hallway was to where he was standing.  The gate was only 6 inches or so away. 

The only thing I could think of was that Luke must have stood up to the gate and cruised over to the wall and started playing with the light switch!  Crazy!  But ooohhhhh so great! 

I was able to get his little “stunt” on video so you can see what I mean.  After I did the video Luke must of gotten bored because he reached over with his right hand, grabbed a hold of the gate, cruised a couple steps till both hands were firmly on the gate, and then proceeded to lower himself down to the ground! 

I can’t tell you how great it was to see!  It was like watching a completely different kid do this little stunt.  Even if Luke gets himself into a situation like he did, by that I mean standing with his hands braced on the wall, he would normally cry or fuss until someone helped him get back down.  So the fact that he did all this and then got himself down without uttering any kind of cry was a miracle in itself.  Thank the Lord that Luke is getting so strong and confident!

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Communication

With Luke this has become a BIG thing.  It’s one thing if your child can’t walk at the age of 4, but for him to also have limited communication skills also…that is totally different.  I know I’m not alone out there, but there are times…like last night where I felt so alone and frustrated.  Luke has been sick on and off since Dec 1, 2011.  We get over one thing and something else comes up.  We made two trips to the ER last week, and finally got an answer for his cough and fever, Bronchiolitis.  So we started breathing treatments which, thank the Lord, helped him tremendously.  His fever went down and his cough has grown better and better…and I thought we were on the road to recovery until last night.

After Luke was asleep for an hour, he started crying.  Sometimes he does this in his sleep or will cry for 5 minutes and go back to sleep.  First, I tried getting him up and holding him a while and then putting him back in bed…that didn’t work.  Then I tried getting him up, giving him Ibuprofen and holding him a while and putting him back in bed….that didn’t work.  Then I tried getting him up and holding him even longer…to let him calm down good….and that didn’t work.  Finally I got my pillow and blanket and crawled into bed with him…which kept him quiet…but he didn’t fall asleep.  After 40 minutes of getting poked, pulled, and pushed…I finally left his bed at 12:20am when he tried crawling over me to get to the “door/gate” of his bed…so he could play with it.  The good news was he only cried for about 5 minutes and was quiet and I assume went right to sleep.  It was still a long night….and still frustrating.

You remember those early days when having a baby?  How tired you are and when the baby doesn’t go to sleep and you are so tired you just start crying because your exhausted and you just don’t know what to do?  Yep…those fun days!  That is how it felt. 

Last week, when I was on the phone with a nurse and we were trying to get Luke’s temp down from 105.3, I was trying to explain how Luke can’t communicate and she said “kind of like having a baby”.  So right she was, it is like having a 4 year old baby. 

What do you do when a baby cries?  First you check their safety (any fingers pinched?), then you check the diaper (maybe change it just in case), then you try feeding them, and if all that fails you just try to rock and sooth them.  That is so much what it is like.  Only Luke is starting to communicate a little.

In fact I have to share how wonderful it was when a few weeks ago Luke came home from school and he started crying at me.  I know…that sounds silly.  But it wasn’t that he was crying, but what he was doing while he was crying.  I noticed that he put his feet in front of himself on the floor and started hitting his shoes.  So…I took off his shoes….and he still wasn’t happy…but after he hit his socks…I took those off too…and sure enough he just crawled off like nothing happened!  It may seem small…but it was so great!!  For a kid who doesn’t point and things he wants, he finally figured out that he could tell me what he wanted by touching his shoes!

Now this has become a daily thing….and I’m wondering if the braces he wears are starting to hurt him after he walks for so long….but I’m still glad he is telling me he wants his shoes off!

Keep trying little man!

You ever see your child try something and they are SO CLOSE and you just want to do it for them?  I get this all the time and it’s so frustrating.  Luke gets SO CLOSE to doing things like, putting coins in the toy pig or putting the triangle in the triangle shaped hole. 

The other day we had another one of these moments that I couldn’t help but laugh.  Lately Luke has been getting this certain magnet off of the refrigerator and then putting it back on.  Usually this ends in frustration for him, because he tends to put the magnet back on the fridge backwards.  A few weeks back he took this magnet off the fridge, then tried to put it back on the fridge backwards.  I told him “flip it over” and low and behold, he flipped it over and it stuck!!  I was so excited!

Well, about a week or so later he was back at the fridge trying to get a magnet to stick.  I started to tell him to flip it over, and then realized it wasn’t a magnet at all, instead it was a Luke’s sister’s “debit card”.  It is small, flat and plastic and has stickers on it so that it looks like a real debit card.  It was the right size and shape for most of our magnets so I can see where he was a little confused. 

I couldn’t help but laugh though, as much as I told him it was not a magnet…he kept trying to get this “magnet” to stick to the fridge and it wouldn’t.  I caught a little of this on video so you can enjoy it as well.  Although in this video I caught him trying out the "magnet"....then he decided to try another use for his "magnet" if it wasn't going to stick.

Is that laughter I hear?

I know I have mentioned Luke’s sense of humor several times in the past, but once again he just cracked me up the other day.  He has been sick…again..so he’s been home a lot lately.  I wonder if being home so much…he got bored….or what happened.  Either way, Luke found something new and funny.

I was in the kitchen cleaning and I hear laugher.  (You know, one day I hope to have a kitchen that opens up to the living room, so I don’t have to always leave the kitchen just to find out what the kids are up to).  Anyway, I go in the living room and I hear a “thump” followed by a laugh.  I look to the recliner and there is Luke up on his knees playing with several toys, but then Luke lifts his arms high and drops them down to the recliner fast, “thump”!  Luke then laughs, because the result of his hitting the recliner is that all the small toys jumped up in the air!  He continued to do this for a good 10 minutes.  I tried capturing it on video, though he stopped laughing once I broke out the camera…he didn't stop hitting the recliner.  

                                                                             

Smart Little Guy!

First, for those of you who usually read by blog weekly…I apologize for slacking the last couple weeks.  Luke has been really sick and on top of that my husband has given me a long “honey do” list for the house.  I’m sure all moms/wives out there can relate!  Despite the list, that will take me months (literally) to finish, I will do my best to keep you all updates with the funny things our Luke is up to.

Just two days ago my mother, so Luke’s grandma, was over while she waited on grandpa to visit someone.  Anyway, the kids flocked right to her when they got up from their naps.  They don’t see this grandma very often since they live further away than their other grandparents, so I was surprised but pleased that they both wanted to play with grandma.

Anyway, I was in the kitchen getting supper ready when I hear laughter…so I went to investigate.  (For my “loyal” readers…do you see a pattern here?  They always do something crazy when I’m not in the room.)  Anyway, I turn the corner and I see grandma in the recliner and Luke and our baby girl are sandwiched between the recliner and the wall.  At first I thought they were just having fun in a new unexplored area, since we usually have two gates stored where they were at the time and have never been back behind the recliner before.  But…then grandma said “Oh…Oh…No” and reached over to grab her mug that held water.  I then saw Luke’s little hand extended out, like he was just getting ready to get the mug when grandma caught him.

I found this very funny and also great because grandma placed the mug towards the back of the end table so that the kids couldn’t reach it from the front.  So Luke didn’t take long to figure out that there was a cool mug on the table and if he wanted it, he had to find his own way to get to it.  And he did!

I’m very proud of his thinking skills, which seem to get better day after day…and I still find Luke quite the funny little guy.

New home for garbage can

Well, I didn’t do the duct tape idea.  Instead I tried to think of a way I could still easily use the garbage can, yet keep it out of Luke’s way.  So I looked around our kitchen, and our cabinets are too small to put a garbage can under the sink, like I know many people do.  It took me a while but I realized we had the perfect spot, on the small landing that is located at the top of the stairs to our basement.  The landing is basically part of the kitchen area, so it isn’t too far out of the way and we don’t have to keep our garbage outside…which this time of year would be just too cold, even in the garage.

So I put our garbage can on the small landing, only the second day I did this Luke decided to reach over the gate, located at the top of the stairs which leads to the landing, and pushed the lid open!  I couldn’t believe it!  So now the garbage can is on the landing but over just enough and at just the right angle that I hope will work. 

I forgot until writing this today that I caught Luke on video opening the garbage can and putting his toys in, so I’ll share that with you today.  He is so organized about it, that I can’t help but laugh.